Category Opinion Pieces
One of the things you may know I’ve struggled with in the past of the feeling of “being good enough”. Because there’s always someone prettier, richer, can take more, more popular, has better contacts, has a specialist ability, so on…. Continue Reading →
Although this blog post isn’t about the TV show ‘Bonding’ it is partially inspired by it. If you’re unfamiliar with the show – it’s a Netflix show regarding a young Dominatrix recruiting her high-school friend as an assistant. It’s 7… Continue Reading →
Maybe there’s some stock in “lucky slave” As some of you probably know, I despise the term “lucky slave” – usually written in a comment to a picture or clip (specifically, the 7 second trailer!) An often common response is… Continue Reading →
I know there’s a temptation when you see someone’s photo/clip/etc that you like to put in a comment and “interact”. Now, I think this can be an encouraging way to show appreciation (especially if you’ve actually bought the clip, when… Continue Reading →
Recently, I’ve seen a couple of comments from female Dominants who do not work Professionally. That there are men who try to “book them” as if they were a Pro. There’s a couple of frustrations that Ladies like this understandably… Continue Reading →
I started this as foot fetish, but then quickly realised it was transferable elsewhere. So, here it is – if you’ve got a fetish and not really getting what you want, here’s a bunch of things you maybe should stop… Continue Reading →
“I’d love to that one day” “I wish that was me” “I’d love the opportunity to do that” So on, so forth. My simple question is… So, what are you doing about it?
I’m going to be really technical today and discuss risk. Risk is something important in many parts of life. Every day we take risks, but, there’s a lot of things we’re programmed to mitigate this. For example – every time… Continue Reading →
I’d started another blog and got sidetracked on this issue – but, felt it was a big enough one to have it’s own blog, which can reference this one. Amongst the most comical of classifieds is whenever you get a… Continue Reading →
Every now and then I get a message from another guy. The general vibe is usually “You get to do cool things and meet nice Women, I would also like that” Sometimes I even get “maybe you could take me… Continue Reading →
Is submission truly selfless? Something that I had struggled with in the past was around whether or not my actions were “selfless”. Part of this stemmed from a moment a while ago when two Ladies were discussing guys in general… Continue Reading →
Someone asked me on Curious Cat “What does ownership mean to you?” I replied, of course, that this wasn’t something I could sum up in a couple of lines. I have been working on drafts regarding ownership for a while…. Continue Reading →