“Try everything once” has to be one of my most hated phrases or pieces of “advice.” It usually adds more confusion than clarity and rarely answers simple questions. And, unsurprisingly, it often comes from someone who hasn’t tried everything. Let’s… Continue Reading →
The history of Locktober is interesting It seems to have stemmed from a couple’s sex/relationship blog who’d been exploring chastity play and so came up with the idea of keeping the M in chastity for the whole month and that… Continue Reading →
Can We Please Stop the “Subs outnumber Dommes” myth? The ratio between subs and Dommes is a lot closer than many claim. It’s all too frequent that there is someone who will harp on about “the ratio” – how there… Continue Reading →
Last week I released my first blog of 2024. In my peak I think I was managing 30-40 per year, so basically fortnightly. So this asks two questions What on Earth have I been up to the past 6 months… Continue Reading →
The thing with kink, is it isn’t actually a ‘need’. You go through Maslow’s ‘hierarchy of needs’ and there’s no line for ballbusting. We ain’t gonna die or go unfulfilled if we’re not sucking toes. Water is as good (if… Continue Reading →
I think to sum up 2023 is that… I am exhausted. There’s certainly been a lot of good times, and I’ll come on to some of them and won’t play things down. But, I’ve been battling on a few fronts… Continue Reading →
It’s been a bit of a while since I did a diary style post and despite regularly attending award events, I’ve never really blogged about them. I have just attended the UK Fetish Awards. So, here is a two for… Continue Reading →
It’s been a topic in my mind in the past, and it came up in a little group chat the other day. Friends and friendships. Particularly within kink and/or the industry. Particular frustrations, to paraphrase, “I thought we were friends,… Continue Reading →
If you google “myths about submission” the vast majority of results that come back are bias towards submissive women. And this is valid, and a lot of points are completely transferable, but – all too often I see myths that… Continue Reading →
We’re a week into the clips4sale “120%” commission incentive… it’s LoyalFans 100% day… ManyVids launches another contest… and iWantClips are probably doing something. And these incentives, tags, themes, initiaves, games, well… Of course. It’s always nice to get extra in… Continue Reading →
Mistress’s words were the only thing her sub heard, as he was under hypnosis. Her voice was soft and clear, like a whisper echoing in the dungeon. The only other sound came from the atmospheric electronic music that played in… Continue Reading →
As someone who has often previously been an advocate on the whole “come to munches” thing, and of course run a munch (which you should totally come to) there’s a lot where my mind has changed a little bit over… Continue Reading →