Category Back to Basics
One of the most common newbie questions on forums is “What is the difference between a kink and a fetish” Someone might do a copy/paste from a website of some definitions. Another person sees this as an opportunity to lay… Continue Reading →
Something that you may see talked about in some circles is the concept of a Mentor. For example, someone might recommend someone seeks a mentor, or someone might feel they would benefit from having one and seek one out. Like… Continue Reading →
There is rarely a bad time to make steps in booking a first session with any form of provider (while this may follow a bias of ‘Professional Dominant’ – the logic applies to anything from Pro Subs to Full Service… Continue Reading →
Punishments in BDSM often get talked about, but it’s something that’s often a little misunderstood, especially from newcomers. Experienced subs or Dominants might talk about being punished, or punishing their subs. If you watch BDSM clips, or read descriptions, there… Continue Reading →
I’m going to be really technical today and discuss risk. Risk is something important in many parts of life. Every day we take risks, but, there’s a lot of things we’re programmed to mitigate this. For example – every time… Continue Reading →
Profile Pitfalls I’m not sure if this is one for a ‘Back to Basics’ article – or – an opinion piece in it’s own right. Maybe a bit of both. Anyway, I was on a website the other day and… Continue Reading →
A logical next chapter in my ‘Back to Basics’ series is around consent and arranging play. The assumption of your position is that perhaps you’ve got talking with someone who would also like to play with you sometime. Examples could… Continue Reading →
Continuing my ‘Back to Basics’ series, I’m now looking at events and parties. In the last installment it was munches and it may be that having been to some munches you want to step up to one of the events… Continue Reading →
The other day, I had a bit of a realisation. A lot of the beginners/newbies information was pretty much in abundance when I joined the kink scene, but is slowly getting lost amongst the noise. So. I’m starting a series… Continue Reading →