Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

Category Opinion Pieces

How to get 82.5% Commission from Clips4Sale

How to get 82.5% Commission from Clips4Sale. I’m going to make a drastic change from my usual writing and produce an actual guide… this one being to making more money. There’s a lot going on in the world of clips… Continue Reading →

Finding the right Dominant for you : some vetting tips.

So. You’re scrolling through Twitter or Fetlife or wherever and see photos or mention of someone that makes you go “ooh”. Perhaps this could be a picture or clip of someone you’ve found attractive or maybe something they’ve said that… Continue Reading →

Submission isn’t black and white – knowing what you’re looking for

Submission isn’t always black and white One of the first and most important rules in submission is that ‘the rules’ are defined by your relationship and dynamic. Sometimes the answer “is this normal?” is, “yes” and “does it matter anyway,… Continue Reading →

Fantasy v Reality : If it’s real to you, it’s real

My thoughts on Fantasy v Reality take a little bit of a twist today. See, I had intended on following up my, more lighthearted, post – with something more serious about some of my struggles. But, instead I decided on… Continue Reading →

Back to Basics : Profile Pitfalls

Profile Pitfalls I’m not sure if this is one for a ‘Back to Basics’ article – or – an opinion piece in it’s own right. Maybe a bit of both. Anyway, I was on a website the other day and… Continue Reading →

Do I Deserve This?

Do I deserve this? I am going to cut straight to the chase, I struggle, at times, with ‘Impostor Syndrome’. In saying that – sometimes when I’m struggling I do acknowledge this is the problem, that it is a known… Continue Reading →

Fantasy v Reality : Mistakes Many Make

There’s been a lot on my mind lately regarding fantasy vs reality. While, perhaps, a deeper blog on my thought process could be one “for the future” – this blog here is more designed at some of the many pitfalls… Continue Reading →

Jealousy in Kink

Something that has been a struggle for me at times has been jealousy. I want to talk about some of my struggles and spirals. Some of this I drafted when feeling quite low, but a lot was written or reviewed… Continue Reading →

Am I even kinky?

Am I even kinky? I asked myself that today. Well. Today as of when I’m writing this blog, so in reality probably a different day. And, I know others have had similar thought processes. It is an extension, of course,… Continue Reading →

Are Pro-Domme sessions too cheap?

It’s been a bit of a hot topic – and it does tie in a little bit with stuff I’ve said in the past. Are Pro-Domme sessions actually TOO CHEAP?

So, I’m umm… up for an award. Vote for me?

So, well. I’m up for an award at the UKAP Awards I’m in the “Best Website” category. I feel a little bit of a fish out of water.

I’ll do anything

“I’ll do anything”, “Whatever Mistress/Sir wants” These sound like good tidbits. It’s like there’s been some thought put into the lack of thought. “If I let people know I’m up for anything that it widens my chances” It also, potentially,… Continue Reading →

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