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I feel there’s a trap some people fall into – which is based on behaviour patterns. If you are doing these things, you may be limiting yourself. There is a kinda prejudice to this, but a logic to the prejudice…. Continue Reading →
I’ve found over the last 12 months or so a growing number of people who’ve expressed interest in filming – but trying to sort it out is somewhat trickier than it should seem. I’ve been plotting a few regular trips… Continue Reading →
I feel I’ve been a bit lax in doing the diary posts for some of the filming days and so wanted to get back on it. I think part the problem was I was doing a lot of filming very… Continue Reading →
NOTE : this is an old blog – the voting links are no longer relevant and have been removed. So. April sees the first UK Fetish Awards and I’m pleased to say I’m nominated for 2 different awards. –… Continue Reading →
There’s something important that easy to forget about the industry and lifestyle in general. Sex work is a luxury. Access to it is a luxury; not a right. Your needs in life are food, water, shelter. Even if you move… Continue Reading →
This is a blog I think a number of conversations and more has led me to write; but it’s arguably controversial. “Does she really like me, or is it purely financial?” Oh. OK. I suppose a counter argument could be… Continue Reading →
Re-reading my 2018 review I couldn’t help but get a sense of de ja vous. Initially, I’d tried and failed to write a 2019 write-up I was happy with. That, as I’m sure most people will know, I find it… Continue Reading →
It’s been a while since I last did the ‘Mistress Profile’ series – and so, about time it came back. There are three I’ve already got ready and hopefully more to follow. First off, I’m going to start with someone… Continue Reading →
As often, there’s been continuous talk on the shadowban and assorted theories on how to beat it or avoid it. This doesn’t help that it seems a fair few sex workers, and others from the adult industry, awoke on Friday… Continue Reading →
There’s an alarming regularity that someone will write on a forum something like “Why is it hard to find a Domme?”, “Where are all the Dommes?”, “My fetish is a bit niche so it’s hard to find someone…” To a… Continue Reading →
Knowing/Setting Your Financial Boundaries. This is not (just) about Findom. There’s a lot within fetish and BDSM, particularly when you’re new, or meet somebody new, there can be a temptation to “spend now, worry about it later” This could be… Continue Reading →
After a busy May, June needed to be a little quieter. But, things for July seemed to slot neatly. This blog covers the weekend of 4th-6th July – some further antics will be in future blogs. I’ve already written a… Continue Reading →