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Diary : Finding Miss Hyde

I know there’s a running joke about the “Hey, we should do something someday” and the amount of time it takes to, well, do something.   But, I think meeting Miss Jessica Hyde was certainly on the excessive front time… Continue Reading →

Diary : A Trinity of Filming – Foxtress, Goddess Cleo and Miss Annaliese

A bit of a trinity today. Filming with Foxtress (our third film day together), Goddess Cleo (who we’ve talked about filming a few times in the past it’s just never happened) and Mistress Annaliese (on her first ever film day)…. Continue Reading →

Booking a Session with a Pro Domme

There is rarely a bad time to make steps in booking a first session with any form of provider (while this may follow a bias of ‘Professional Dominant’ – the logic applies to anything from Pro Subs to Full Service… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Miss Wildfire

Filming, and other opportunities, through the pandemic had been sparse. A lot felt weird to diary about, so I didn’t, but many were low risk and low key.  Literally myself, the lady and a tripod. Today we have a camera… Continue Reading →

The Fantasy of the Live-in Slave

A common fantasy I see raised a lot is the idea of being a live-in slave. Except, the fantasy is not presented as being a fantasy, but a goal. Obviously there are people who have this type of relationship, under… Continue Reading →

Why you’re not getting the play or relationships you crave

Why you’re not getting the play or relationships you crave People often want different things from their patriation in the fetish community (be participation signing up for websites or going to munches/events). And while some people seem to have great… Continue Reading →

Punishments in BDSM

Punishments in BDSM often get talked about, but it’s something that’s often a little misunderstood, especially from newcomers. Experienced subs or Dominants might talk about being punished, or punishing their subs. If you watch BDSM clips, or read descriptions, there… Continue Reading →

My Partner Said No to My Fetish – How Do I Change Her Mind?

A couple of messages (some of specific scenarios, some generally being a form of FAQ) has led me to start a new Agony Aunt category. Consider that my advice is based solely on my experience. I want to start with… Continue Reading →

Diary : A Return to filming / with Goddexx Althea

I don’t diary every filming day or private session (not that I’ve had a private session in a while… another story for another day) but I almost started to regret that with the pandemic and shut down. So, the filming… Continue Reading →

Do you have to be submissive to enjoy kink?

Do you have to be submissive to enjoy kink? One thing I’ve learnt over the years is that a lot of people who are, or think they are, submissive often get confused on what this entails. That, not everyone on… Continue Reading →

Beware the Carrot and the Stick

The image of a carrot and a stick comes from the old cartoons. Someone is sitting on a donkey, dangling a carrot in front of its nose by a stick. This causes the donkey to move forwards, chasing the carrot… Continue Reading →

10 Mistakes Subs Seeking Ownership Make

I started writing a post on ownership.  It got long.  Too long. So I wanted to break off little parts of it into mini-blogs to be referenced when the main course comes. This episode is called “10 Mistakes Subs Seeking… Continue Reading →

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