Tag submission
A couple of messages (some of specific scenarios, some generally being a form of FAQ) has led me to start a new Agony Aunt category. Consider that my advice is based solely on my experience. I want to start with… Continue Reading →
Do you have to be submissive to enjoy kink? One thing I’ve learnt over the years is that a lot of people who are, or think they are, submissive often get confused on what this entails. That, not everyone on… Continue Reading →
I started writing a post on ownership. It got long. Too long. So I wanted to break off little parts of it into mini-blogs to be referenced when the main course comes. This episode is called “10 Mistakes Subs Seeking… Continue Reading →
Obviously this is a kinda follow-on from my very popular, ‘So you want to be a film slave’ blog which I also feel is also essential to read. Certainly a lot of points I will have missed is because they… Continue Reading →
Maybe there’s some stock in “lucky slave” As some of you probably know, I despise the term “lucky slave” – usually written in a comment to a picture or clip (specifically, the 7 second trailer!) An often common response is… Continue Reading →
Is submission truly selfless? Something that I had struggled with in the past was around whether or not my actions were “selfless”. Part of this stemmed from a moment a while ago when two Ladies were discussing guys in general… Continue Reading →
Someone asked me on Curious Cat “What does ownership mean to you?” I replied, of course, that this wasn’t something I could sum up in a couple of lines. I have been working on drafts regarding ownership for a while…. Continue Reading →
“I’ll pre-warn you, my feet are sweaty” Oh. Good. This didn’t bother me. She knew it didn’t bother me. It was said to excite me. But, in saying this before I removed Her boots… this did present a challenge.
Submission isn’t always black and white One of the first and most important rules in submission is that ‘the rules’ are defined by your relationship and dynamic. Sometimes the answer “is this normal?” is, “yes” and “does it matter anyway,… Continue Reading →
There’s a lot said around gifting and tribute. Whether this is within the whole Findom “spoil me” kind of thing. Or gifts when meeting, or after meeting, or for a birthday or Christmas… or just because. A lot of this… Continue Reading →
How to Find a Mistress I’ve seen a whole wave of newbies recently whom seem to have this question. “I’m interested in exploring my fetishes, where can I find a Mistress?” Or varients. There’s no one-stop solution, but here’s some… Continue Reading →
Having scrapped my planned blog for this week (honestly, it needed nuking – my good points in there will be mopped up on a future blog.) I had an inspiration for some writing earlier – and this is probably going… Continue Reading →