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Little Things… and who is in control. My latest muse on submission.

I think this is now a third complete re-write on my latest mulling on submission.

There’s been a few different factors and other writings which have inspired me into this, including one I wrote 7 months ago.

I mean, my one 7 months ago – it was a ramble. It was me thinking aloud and excreting words to the screen trying to decide if and where I fit in… and concluded that actually it doesn’t matter if I’m submissive or not as long as everyone involved is happy.

I do stand by that conclusion and will probably always stand by that conclusion.

Diary : Bitches Unleashed Trip

I’d been curious about attending a Femdom event for quite a while.

There’s often been reasons I’ve not – whether it’s been uncertainty of if it’s for me, or general nerves. Too much expectancy and then disappointment or even just a vision that there was a risk of too many single subs all desperate for play and in that kind of set up I get a bit intimidated and step back which has me have no chance.

But some of this is all pre-conceptions and worry and the likes- but the whole concept of Bitches Unleashed was too good to miss.

A Year of Filming

It’s been a year today since I first filmed a clip as a filming slave.

I have been sitting on a draft about filming, in general for many months – and now seems a good time to do a final version of it 🙂

My Experiences in Corporal Punishment

The other day I put up a tweet inviting topic requests for blogs.

Punishing Times suggested
“Your experiences with CP and tips for what works, what doesn’t?”

So.
This is my experience in CP.

Diary – Subversion : Secret 102 Meet

There’s so many clubs and events and things that I want to check out – and – sometimes the right sort of prompt can take you out.

I’ve written before about the Secret 102 radio show (blog here), which I enjoy and the concept of a meet up of some of the listeners and presenters seemed a perfect opportunity – taking place at Club Subversion.

The Magic Words

From the archives… based on something from January 2016. Originally published on Fetlife. I do have a footnote….
Here goes…

I lay sprawled across the spanking bench, exhausted.

Diary : Filming with Miss Suzanna Maxwell

Update : This blog has now been updated with links to clips – please scroll to bottom.

One thing I enjoy about a lot of the things I get involved in is that absolutely anything can come from anywhere

There’s stories I haven’t told – maybe one day I will, in the wrong order. But, the idea of some of these blog posts came after I’d been in a position to be like “Hey, do you mind if I write about how awesome You are?”

I’m Not Done With You Yet – 2016 Retrospective

Back in January, I wrote a blog post which was a story based on something which happened, which focused on a moment and a mood.

In my post it’s a long post which reflects over something which probably only took a few seconds in reality.
You can read my story here… clicky

I’m not really one for planting trigger words, but the right words at the right time sums up a moment and creates such dynamics. At the time I thought time was up or that I was finished… but no, “I’m not done with you yet” she told me…

That’s how I began this year.

Secret Santa (Fiction)

Office Secret Santa’s, they’re a kind of enforced fun, I guess. I partake annually and usually receive chocolates or a stationery set or something – my co-workers seem to receive a mixture of similarly bland gifts, but the odd interesting novelty gift. I always try to make an effort on gifts.

The young lady whose name I drew this year seems thrilled with the book I got her from the TV series she never seems to shut up about. So, that’s nice.

Lifestyle or Professional (err… both)

I read an interesting blog the other day by Nikki Whiplash entitled ‘Are you Lifestyle’ (link) and it pretty much was a humorous rant about the question that gets asked of Pro Domme’s far too often.
Being “lifestyle” and being “Professional” are not mutually exclusive.
Of some of the questions I’d sometimes nervously like to ask Professional Dominatrix’s… “Are you Lifestyle?” isn’t close.

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