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There is rarely a bad time to make steps in booking a first session with any form of provider (while this may follow a bias of ‘Professional Dominant’ – the logic applies to anything from Pro Subs to Full Service… Continue Reading →
Filming, and other opportunities, through the pandemic had been sparse. A lot felt weird to diary about, so I didn’t, but many were low risk and low key. Literally myself, the lady and a tripod. Today we have a camera… Continue Reading →
A common fantasy I see raised a lot is the idea of being a live-in slave. Except, the fantasy is not presented as being a fantasy, but a goal. Obviously there are people who have this type of relationship, under… Continue Reading →
Why you’re not getting the play or relationships you crave People often want different things from their patriation in the fetish community (be participation signing up for websites or going to munches/events). And while some people seem to have great… Continue Reading →
A couple of messages (some of specific scenarios, some generally being a form of FAQ) has led me to start a new Agony Aunt category. Consider that my advice is based solely on my experience. I want to start with… Continue Reading →
The image of a carrot and a stick comes from the old cartoons. Someone is sitting on a donkey, dangling a carrot in front of its nose by a stick. This causes the donkey to move forwards, chasing the carrot… Continue Reading →
Ownership : In a BDSM “Lifestyle” Relationship? Whilst working out the next logical place to go with this mini series; a comment on the context of the relationship raised a very important point. “It’s would be helpful to have context… Continue Reading →
I started writing a post on ownership. It got long. Too long. So I wanted to break off little parts of it into mini-blogs to be referenced when the main course comes. This episode is called “10 Mistakes Subs Seeking… Continue Reading →
I feel there’s a trap some people fall into – which is based on behaviour patterns. If you are doing these things, you may be limiting yourself. There is a kinda prejudice to this, but a logic to the prejudice…. Continue Reading →
I’ve found over the last 12 months or so a growing number of people who’ve expressed interest in filming – but trying to sort it out is somewhat trickier than it should seem. I’ve been plotting a few regular trips… Continue Reading →
Re-reading my 2018 review I couldn’t help but get a sense of de ja vous. Initially, I’d tried and failed to write a 2019 write-up I was happy with. That, as I’m sure most people will know, I find it… Continue Reading →
Do I deserve this? I am going to cut straight to the chase, I struggle, at times, with ‘Impostor Syndrome’. In saying that – sometimes when I’m struggling I do acknowledge this is the problem, that it is a known… Continue Reading →