Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

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Kink is a ‘Want’ – but why do we ‘Need’ it?

The thing with kink, is it isn’t actually a ‘need’.  You go through Maslow’s ‘hierarchy of needs’ and there’s no line for ballbusting.  We ain’t gonna die or go unfulfilled if we’re not sucking toes.  Water is as good (if… Continue Reading →

Myths about Male Submissives

If you google “myths about submission” the vast majority of results that come back are bias towards submissive women. And this is valid, and a lot of points are completely transferable, but – all too often I see myths that… Continue Reading →

The Pros (and Cons) of Munches

As someone who has often previously been an advocate on the whole “come to munches” thing, and of course run a munch (which you should totally come to) there’s a lot where my mind has changed a little bit over… Continue Reading →

Diary : January Filming – feat Goddess Cleo, Miss Jessica Hyde, Foxtress and Mx Valleycat

It’s been a lot longer than planned since I last did a diary post!  So many adventures which haven’t fully gone documented, which feels a shame. So, here are two for the price of one. January 2023 I managed two… Continue Reading →

Are you a vampire sub?

I’d been talking to a friend the other day.  She has been dating and looking for a kinky partner.   Although she is a switch, though it is not important to her that a partner would satisfy this. She recently met… Continue Reading →

Diary : Messtival and Filming with Roxy-Fox and Araneae

It’s been a while since I did a diary post (or blog in general, sorry!) but this is one with so much adventure it feels like it shouldn’t be left out. There is a lot of back story, so this… Continue Reading →

Diary : Meeting Miss Cate McQueen

You know when you’re at a club or party and someone catches your eye?   You think, “Wow, they look amazing”, but then for any one of a million reasons you end up leaving having not said anything? Well. That… Continue Reading →

2021 in Review : A Glimpse of Normal Service

Coming into 2021 there were different waves of optimism.  I think we all kinda hoped covid would be “over” by now, but instead we’re in this weird hazy “learn to live with covid” phase which involves frequent testing, careful planning… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Lady Valeska

I first met Lady Valeska at a filming and Femdom event in Evesham back in 2019. At the time my clip store was in it’s infancy, but she was really kind enough to let me use a one-on-one clip we’d… Continue Reading →

Diary : Finding Miss Hyde

I know there’s a running joke about the “Hey, we should do something someday” and the amount of time it takes to, well, do something.   But, I think meeting Miss Jessica Hyde was certainly on the excessive front time… Continue Reading →

Diary : A Trinity of Filming – Foxtress, Goddess Cleo and Miss Annaliese

A bit of a trinity today. Filming with Foxtress (our third film day together), Goddess Cleo (who we’ve talked about filming a few times in the past it’s just never happened) and Mistress Annaliese (on her first ever film day)…. Continue Reading →

Overcoming the Shame of a Foot Fetish

For the longest time I was ashamed of my foot fetish. I mean, it seems difficult. Something you can’t really control.  But, for the longest time I struggled with it. Now, well, there’s pictures and videos of me with a… Continue Reading →

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