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Patterned Behaviour – Breaking the Pattern

I feel there’s a trap some people fall into – which is based on behaviour patterns.  If you are doing these things, you may be limiting yourself. There is a kinda prejudice to this, but a logic to the prejudice…. Continue Reading →

Releasing lockdown : kink won’t return straight to normal

Whilst none of us have a crystal ball, I think one of the next things to come to terms with is that restrictions to cope with the covid19 outbreak are not here for the short-term. I appreciate a lot of… Continue Reading →

There Should be an app for that – why your favourite fetish and sex sites don’t have an app

There Should be an app for that – why your favourite fetish and sex sites don’t have an app There’s a whole bunch of sex and fetish websites that people will state they feel there should be an app for…. Continue Reading →

Diary – filming with Amy Wynters

I’ve found over the last 12 months or so a growing number of people who’ve expressed interest in filming – but trying to sort it out is somewhat trickier than it should seem. I’ve been plotting a few regular trips… Continue Reading →

Covid19 and kink : submission and Domination without meeting

Covid19 and Kink There’s probably a whole raft of blogs I could write on covid19. Not that I’m a particular expert, I’m not saying that, but on how it’s going to affect us in kink. Some clubs and events went… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Fetish SINema

I feel I’ve been a bit lax in doing the diary posts for some of the filming days and so wanted to get back on it. I think part the problem was I was doing a lot of filming very… Continue Reading →

UK Fetish Awards / I’m up for two awards

NOTE : this is an old blog – the voting links are no longer relevant and have been removed.   So.  April sees the first UK Fetish Awards and I’m pleased to say I’m nominated for 2 different awards. –… Continue Reading →

Sex work is a luxury, not a right

There’s something important that easy to forget about the industry and lifestyle in general.  Sex work is a luxury. Access to it is a luxury; not a right. Your needs in life are food, water, shelter. Even if you move… Continue Reading →

The pitfall of ‘personal responsibility’

I think something I want to make as a point is that sometimes how you respond to an incident or allegations can often say as much about you as the actual incident or allegation. So if, for example, there’s a… Continue Reading →

Ask not what your Dominant can do for you; ask what you can do for your Dominant

I feel that in a couple of recent posts [including my recent blog post] and some comments I’ve made on social media that, there’s things I’ve implied that take away from somewhat of a core message. Without wishing to defend… Continue Reading →

Does my Domme really like me, or is it purely financial?

This is a blog I think a number of conversations and more has led me to write; but it’s arguably controversial. “Does she really like me, or is it purely financial?” Oh. OK. I suppose a counter argument could be… Continue Reading →

Top Posts of 2019

In previous years I’ve retweeted out some of my most read blogs of the year, but this time I thought I’d put them all in one link. There’s been a mixed bag of the educational, the funny and the diaries…… Continue Reading →

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