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Re-reading my 2018 review I couldn’t help but get a sense of de ja vous. Initially, I’d tried and failed to write a 2019 write-up I was happy with. That, as I’m sure most people will know, I find it… Continue Reading →
Foxtress. Based in London, She is the London Switch Bitch. She’s involved in a whole bunch of stuff – including the DVS network and Domina Parties. She recently launched her own clip stores.
GoodSub231 is currently recovering from shock after realising that doing exactly what he wanted was not submission. “I’d been struggling to convince people on my local scene that I would be a good sub,” he explains, “So… ha… I had… Continue Reading →
Sub shocked to find he just had to book a session. After spending a year or so wasting his time and everyone else’s writing shit like “I’ll do anything to be at your feet Mistress xxx” on everything from promo… Continue Reading →
Ms Aleera. Based near London, She is the Queen of the Wolves. She has worked with many great people – as part of Domina Parties but also through events like the Domme Retreats. She also has her own wolf pack.
A somewhat common phrase within kink is “Topping from the Bottom” which is also presented as being a bad thing. I do agree that it is, if not consensual – and can be bad for both the Dominant and the… Continue Reading →
I was recently in a Twitter discussion regarding self-esteem. A question being that : How can a a sub maintain healthy self-esteem in a D/s relationship as an “Inferior”? I think there is a lot of language used, especially online,… Continue Reading →
It’s been a while since I last did the ‘Mistress Profile’ series – and so, about time it came back. There are three I’ve already got ready and hopefully more to follow. First off, I’m going to start with someone… Continue Reading →
As often, there’s been continuous talk on the shadowban and assorted theories on how to beat it or avoid it. This doesn’t help that it seems a fair few sex workers, and others from the adult industry, awoke on Friday… Continue Reading →
There’s an alarming regularity that someone will write on a forum something like “Why is it hard to find a Domme?”, “Where are all the Dommes?”, “My fetish is a bit niche so it’s hard to find someone…” To a… Continue Reading →
I often thought I was cursed with Mixed Wrestling. It’d been something I’d be curious to be involved in; every time I tried to sort something, something would happen. Injuries, last minute problems, someone else just pipping me on applying… Continue Reading →
Knowing/Setting Your Financial Boundaries. This is not (just) about Findom. There’s a lot within fetish and BDSM, particularly when you’re new, or meet somebody new, there can be a temptation to “spend now, worry about it later” This could be… Continue Reading →