Category Opinion Pieces
I often see (particularly) new subs who appear dejected at how difficult it is for them to find a Dominant/Mistress. Particularly so if they feel they’re in a sea of scammers or people they’ve been talking to for a week… Continue Reading →
Something that you may see talked about in some circles is the concept of a Mentor. For example, someone might recommend someone seeks a mentor, or someone might feel they would benefit from having one and seek one out. Like… Continue Reading →
There is rarely a bad time to make steps in booking a first session with any form of provider (while this may follow a bias of ‘Professional Dominant’ – the logic applies to anything from Pro Subs to Full Service… Continue Reading →
I write a lot of clip descriptions – not just for myself but for others Now, ultimately the purpose of a description is to provide an extra selling point – both kinda describing what is in the clip but also… Continue Reading →
Every now and then someone will make a blog, or post, or tweet about some form of “good practice” in kink. This is usually based around everything from safety precautions, consent, scene negotiation, vetting, whatever. And, every now and then. … Continue Reading →
A common scenario I see from sub guys is this kinda dilemma. They have, or had, a partner and the relationship has proceeded as relationships do. They’ve then perhaps raised a fetish, or dynamic, or idea and their partner just… Continue Reading →
Before I get to the obvious – this was something raised to me as a question as a suggestion for a blog. The backstory goes as follows. “There was a Mistress who made some posts about being poly and celebrating… Continue Reading →
A common fantasy I see raised a lot is the idea of being a live-in slave. Except, the fantasy is not presented as being a fantasy, but a goal. Obviously there are people who have this type of relationship, under… Continue Reading →
Why you’re not getting the play or relationships you crave People often want different things from their patriation in the fetish community (be participation signing up for websites or going to munches/events). And while some people seem to have great… Continue Reading →
Punishments in BDSM often get talked about, but it’s something that’s often a little misunderstood, especially from newcomers. Experienced subs or Dominants might talk about being punished, or punishing their subs. If you watch BDSM clips, or read descriptions, there… Continue Reading →
Another agony aunt topic which I’ve taken from a paraphrased version of a very common topic. This time about when a subs circumstances have changed. “I have been in service to a Domme who works Professionally. Due to a change… Continue Reading →
I’m not at all surprised by many of the Dominants who’ve said that future priority will be given to those who supported them during the pandemic. Certainly if you’ve been supporting your Dominant during covid, it’ll be better for both… Continue Reading →