Category Opinion Pieces
For assorted reasons there’s a lot of chatter recently on deposits, why we pay them, when they’re refundable and, more. So here is a quick guide. YOU NEVER USED TO HAVE TO PAY DEPOSITS!!! And now you do. Times change…. Continue Reading →
One of the myths that always pops up is “the submissive is the one really in control” Granted. The submissive has more control than credit is sometimes given for but to say they have overall control is both inaccurate and,… Continue Reading →
A somewhat hot topic recently has been around ‘filming tributes’ and how right or fair they are. Often the fee/payment to see a Pro-Domme or engage in some form of online (or other play) is known as the ‘tribute’. With… Continue Reading →
Sometimes, for whatever reason, clips do not sell. Even some of the most successful producers and creators have had some that did not shift (or did, but massively underperformed). It’s not a sign of failure, or that the clips were… Continue Reading →
When the news first broke of Elon Musk’s planned takeover of Twitter I had concerns. My concerns were simple. A lot of change can be bad. Tumblr had always been quite happy with adult content, and then following a takeover… Continue Reading →
I’d been talking to a friend the other day. She has been dating and looking for a kinky partner.  Although she is a switch, though it is not important to her that a partner would satisfy this. She recently met… Continue Reading →
One term that gets bandied about a lot recently is ‘Simp’. It’s one of those where the original meaning has been claimed into a fetish and also thrown around as an insult by those who’ve lost the meaning. So, let’s… Continue Reading →
I just finished ‘How to Build a Sex Room’ on Netflix and this is my review. First off. Any form of positive representation of kink or sex is a good thing. And most of it was a positive representation.
One of my favourite stories about consent, limits, and communication sums up some of my general feelings about the problem with ‘limits’ sometimes. The story goes. A shibari specialist was offering play and doing demos involving a queue of volunteers…. Continue Reading →
This feels maybe like an article that should/could have been made 6 months ago, but some of the events of the past 6 months make this as valid as ever. Most weeks (probably most days even) it feels like there’s… Continue Reading →
He came online and had a raging boner he bothered women like a stupid loner That’s where She, Got his mail He said he he wanted to be her servant, She said, “In that case I’ll have a tribute He… Continue Reading →
I was in a conference the other day and, for some bizarre reason, they closed by asking the presenters “does pineapple go on pizza?” My thought on this was what a bizarre way to end the day – and none… Continue Reading →