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So you want to be a film slave

A few months ago I wrote a blog about filming to mark a year of it (read that here), I’ll probably do a direct follow up next year to mark two years of it – but in the meantime…
It did spark a few “Oh, I’d love to get into it” kind of posts and comments. So, here’s an ‘advice’ post.
And then I didn’t.

My Wife and Our Relationship

One idea I toyed with was doing blogs about my favourite Mistresses and why they are so wonderful.
I might do that, one day.   But regardless, I think it’d be more apt to do one about the most special Lady in my life, my wife.
I am going to talk a little about our relationship, our dynamic and I don’t know. It might help others understand, or, it might help others talk with their partners, or if nothing else I get to talk about a passion of mine and our relationship.

Staying Safe : Avoiding Scammers

There’s been a bit of a rise recently in attempted scammers.
And, general chancers are fairly common.

Some have been fairly blatant, clear bots. Some, I’ve seen people at least initially fall for.

These are damaging to the whole industry and arguably lifestyle.

Lucky for me I don’t believe in luck…

Lucky for me I don’t believe in luck.

You see it all the time.
“Lucky sub, wish that was me”, “Lucky guy”, etc.

I don’t believe in luck.

Mind. I say that, I do often feel “lucky”.

Why is it always about money?

Why is it always about money?

aka – Pro-Shaming

“Where are all the women?” has been a lowly battle cry since the dawn of the internet.

It’s like the desperate mating call from the male who never leaves his house and is too tight to sign up for a dating site.

Add in some cliche about an unfair ratio or about how “nice guys finish last” and it’s complete.

The Difficult Second Session

I’ve been feeling a little reflectively lately.

I do now and then.

Today marks one year since the second occasion I booked a Private Session with a Professional Mistress. I think it’s interesting to remember some of my feelings going into that.

In music, there’s a term called ‘The Difficult Second Album Syndrome’.

What is… Sploshing ?

I was going to write a blog on Sploshing a while ago, but it fell by the wayside.
Now seems a good time as I’ve had conversations about it with a few different people recently, possibly just a perfect storm between the recent Splosh games – newcombers going “ooh, what is this” and in one case, an idea stemmed from a creepy PM she received.
Sploshing can often be referred to as WAM (Wet and Messy) and – generally does not involve wee or poo or semen (But it can.).   It can be anything from water (mostly in wetlook), food stuffs, mud or slime/gunge (yes, that stuff from Saturday Morning kids TV…)

Little Things… and who is in control. My latest muse on submission.

I think this is now a third complete re-write on my latest mulling on submission.

There’s been a few different factors and other writings which have inspired me into this, including one I wrote 7 months ago.

I mean, my one 7 months ago – it was a ramble. It was me thinking aloud and excreting words to the screen trying to decide if and where I fit in… and concluded that actually it doesn’t matter if I’m submissive or not as long as everyone involved is happy.

I do stand by that conclusion and will probably always stand by that conclusion.

My Experiences in Corporal Punishment

The other day I put up a tweet inviting topic requests for blogs.

Punishing Times suggested
“Your experiences with CP and tips for what works, what doesn’t?”

So.
This is my experience in CP.

Lifestyle or Professional (err… both)

I read an interesting blog the other day by Nikki Whiplash entitled ‘Are you Lifestyle’ (link) and it pretty much was a humorous rant about the question that gets asked of Pro Domme’s far too often.
Being “lifestyle” and being “Professional” are not mutually exclusive.
Of some of the questions I’d sometimes nervously like to ask Professional Dominatrix’s… “Are you Lifestyle?” isn’t close.

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