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Diary : This Past Week….

I tend not to do week-in-the-life of kinda posts.  I mean, there’s often things happen or things on my mind most weeks.  But still. Anyway, the past week or so has been really positive in many aspects of my life.

Staying Safe : Avoiding Scammers

There’s been a bit of a rise recently in attempted scammers. And, general chancers are fairly common. Some have been fairly blatant, clear bots. Some, I’ve seen people at least initially fall for. These are damaging to the whole industry… Continue Reading →

Lucky for me I don’t believe in luck…

Lucky for me I don’t believe in luck. You see it all the time. “Lucky sub, wish that was me”, “Lucky guy”, etc. I don’t believe in luck. Mind. I say that, I do often feel “lucky”.

Why is it always about money?

Why is it always about money? aka – Pro-Shaming “Where are all the women?” has been a lowly battle cry since the dawn of the internet. It’s like the desperate mating call from the male who never leaves his house… Continue Reading →

The Difficult Second Session

I’ve been feeling a little reflectively lately. I do now and then. Today marks one year since the second occasion I booked a Private Session with a Professional Mistress. I think it’s interesting to remember some of my feelings going… Continue Reading →

What is… Sploshing ?

I was going to write a blog on Sploshing a while ago, but it fell by the wayside. Now seems a good time as I’ve had conversations about it with a few different people recently, possibly just a perfect storm… Continue Reading →

Diary : On the Edge

“I love the pathetic noises you make as you squirm” Has it been an hour? Or ten minutes? Or ninety minutes? More? I have no idea. It is dark, I’m encased in the vac bed – and whilst this feels… Continue Reading →

Little Things… and who is in control. My latest muse on submission.

I think this is now a third complete re-write on my latest mulling on submission. There’s been a few different factors and other writings which have inspired me into this, including one I wrote 7 months ago. I mean, my… Continue Reading →

A Year of Filming

It’s been a year today since I first filmed a clip as a filming slave. I have been sitting on a draft about filming, in general for many months – and now seems a good time to do a final… Continue Reading →

My Experiences in Corporal Punishment

The other day I put up a tweet inviting topic requests for blogs. Punishing Times suggested “Your experiences with CP and tips for what works, what doesn’t?” So. This is my experience in CP.

Diary – Subversion : Secret 102 Meet

There’s so many clubs and events and things that I want to check out – and – sometimes the right sort of prompt can take you out. I’ve written before about the Secret 102 radio show (blog here), which I… Continue Reading →

The Magic Words

From the archives… based on something from January 2016. Originally published on Fetlife. I do have a footnote…. Here goes… I lay sprawled across the spanking bench, exhausted.

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