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There’s an alarming regularity that someone will write on a forum something like “Why is it hard to find a Domme?”, “Where are all the Dommes?”, “My fetish is a bit niche so it’s hard to find someone…” To a… Continue Reading →
Knowing/Setting Your Financial Boundaries. This is not (just) about Findom. There’s a lot within fetish and BDSM, particularly when you’re new, or meet somebody new, there can be a temptation to “spend now, worry about it later” This could be… Continue Reading →
So, it’s here. My own Femdom clipstore. Who’d have thought it? When I first started filming 3 years ago it was a little bit “Wouldn’t this be fun to do sometime”. Things have come a little way since then. Of… Continue Reading →
Although this blog post isn’t about the TV show ‘Bonding’ it is partially inspired by it. If you’re unfamiliar with the show – it’s a Netflix show regarding a young Dominatrix recruiting her high-school friend as an assistant. It’s 7… Continue Reading →
It wasn’t an intention to go for a landmark number of clips; but, perhaps that in itself was why doing my 200th clip was so valuable. I’d talked on and off about doing some filming with Nina Hiss – and… Continue Reading →
Maybe there’s some stock in “lucky slave” As some of you probably know, I despise the term “lucky slave” – usually written in a comment to a picture or clip (specifically, the 7 second trailer!) An often common response is… Continue Reading →
Someone asked me on Curious Cat “What does ownership mean to you?” I replied, of course, that this wasn’t something I could sum up in a couple of lines. I have been working on drafts regarding ownership for a while…. Continue Reading →
How to get 82.5% Commission from Clips4Sale. I’m going to make a drastic change from my usual writing and produce an actual guide… this one being to making more money. There’s a lot going on in the world of clips… Continue Reading →
Profile Pitfalls I’m not sure if this is one for a ‘Back to Basics’ article – or – an opinion piece in it’s own right. Maybe a bit of both. Anyway, I was on a website the other day and… Continue Reading →
“I’ll pre-warn you, my feet are sweaty” Oh. Good. This didn’t bother me. She knew it didn’t bother me. It was said to excite me. But, in saying this before I removed Her boots… this did present a challenge.
Do I deserve this? I am going to cut straight to the chase, I struggle, at times, with ‘Impostor Syndrome’. In saying that – sometimes when I’m struggling I do acknowledge this is the problem, that it is a known… Continue Reading →
After a really good weekend at the Hidden Torturer Farm last year, it was certainly a no-brainer to repeat the opportunity. (Read here for last years adventures). Like previously, I was going with a view to be of assistance to… Continue Reading →