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I started writing a post on ownership. It got long. Too long. So I wanted to break off little parts of it into mini-blogs to be referenced when the main course comes. This episode is called “10 Mistakes Subs Seeking… Continue Reading →
It’s probably not unnoticed that there are a rise in people signing up to create their own page on a platform like OnlyFans (or AdmireMe, AVN Stars, so on) Along with this comes the rise in people bitching about people… Continue Reading →
I feel there’s a trap some people fall into – which is based on behaviour patterns. If you are doing these things, you may be limiting yourself. There is a kinda prejudice to this, but a logic to the prejudice…. Continue Reading →
NOTE : this is an old blog – the voting links are no longer relevant and have been removed. So. April sees the first UK Fetish Awards and I’m pleased to say I’m nominated for 2 different awards. –… Continue Reading →
There’s something important that easy to forget about the industry and lifestyle in general. Sex work is a luxury. Access to it is a luxury; not a right. Your needs in life are food, water, shelter. Even if you move… Continue Reading →
This is a blog I think a number of conversations and more has led me to write; but it’s arguably controversial. “Does she really like me, or is it purely financial?” Oh. OK. I suppose a counter argument could be… Continue Reading →
It’s been a while since I last did the ‘Mistress Profile’ series – and so, about time it came back. There are three I’ve already got ready and hopefully more to follow. First off, I’m going to start with someone… Continue Reading →
As often, there’s been continuous talk on the shadowban and assorted theories on how to beat it or avoid it. This doesn’t help that it seems a fair few sex workers, and others from the adult industry, awoke on Friday… Continue Reading →
There’s an alarming regularity that someone will write on a forum something like “Why is it hard to find a Domme?”, “Where are all the Dommes?”, “My fetish is a bit niche so it’s hard to find someone…” To a… Continue Reading →
One of the things you may know I’ve struggled with in the past of the feeling of “being good enough”. Because there’s always someone prettier, richer, can take more, more popular, has better contacts, has a specialist ability, so on…. Continue Reading →
Although this blog post isn’t about the TV show ‘Bonding’ it is partially inspired by it. If you’re unfamiliar with the show – it’s a Netflix show regarding a young Dominatrix recruiting her high-school friend as an assistant. It’s 7… Continue Reading →
Maybe there’s some stock in “lucky slave” As some of you probably know, I despise the term “lucky slave” – usually written in a comment to a picture or clip (specifically, the 7 second trailer!) An often common response is… Continue Reading →