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Maybe there’s some stock in “lucky slave” As some of you probably know, I despise the term “lucky slave” – usually written in a comment to a picture or clip (specifically, the 7 second trailer!) An often common response is… Continue Reading →
Is submission truly selfless? Something that I had struggled with in the past was around whether or not my actions were “selfless”. Part of this stemmed from a moment a while ago when two Ladies were discussing guys in general… Continue Reading →
So. You’re scrolling through Twitter or Fetlife or wherever and see photos or mention of someone that makes you go “ooh”. Perhaps this could be a picture or clip of someone you’ve found attractive or maybe something they’ve said that… Continue Reading →
My thoughts on Fantasy v Reality take a little bit of a twist today. See, I had intended on following up my, more lighthearted, post – with something more serious about some of my struggles. But, instead I decided on… Continue Reading →
Profile Pitfalls I’m not sure if this is one for a ‘Back to Basics’ article – or – an opinion piece in it’s own right. Maybe a bit of both. Anyway, I was on a website the other day and… Continue Reading →
There’s been a lot on my mind lately regarding fantasy vs reality. While, perhaps, a deeper blog on my thought process could be one “for the future” – this blog here is more designed at some of the many pitfalls… Continue Reading →
Am I even kinky? I asked myself that today. Well. Today as of when I’m writing this blog, so in reality probably a different day. And, I know others have had similar thought processes. It is an extension, of course,… Continue Reading →
It’s been a bit of a hot topic – and it does tie in a little bit with stuff I’ve said in the past. Are Pro-Domme sessions actually TOO CHEAP?
“I’ll do anything”, “Whatever Mistress/Sir wants” These sound like good tidbits. It’s like there’s been some thought put into the lack of thought. “If I let people know I’m up for anything that it widens my chances” It also, potentially,… Continue Reading →
Submission isn’t always black and white One of the first and most important rules in submission is that ‘the rules’ are defined by your relationship and dynamic. Sometimes the answer “is this normal?” is, “yes” and “does it matter anyway,… Continue Reading →
Initially, I was going to write this as a Monty Python style blog. What have the Professionals ever done for us? Well, apart from better sanitation and medicine and education and irrigation and public health and roads and a freshwater… Continue Reading →
I was reading yet-another bitching-about-Findom thread the other day. It’s kinda sobering the lack of self awareness some of these guys have. It has happened, but it’s very rare I get cold contacted by a Findom – and – I’ll… Continue Reading →