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“I’ll do anything”, “Whatever Mistress/Sir wants” These sound like good tidbits. It’s like there’s been some thought put into the lack of thought. “If I let people know I’m up for anything that it widens my chances” It also, potentially,… Continue Reading →
I was reading yet-another bitching-about-Findom thread the other day. It’s kinda sobering the lack of self awareness some of these guys have. It has happened, but it’s very rare I get cold contacted by a Findom – and – I’ll… Continue Reading →
A logical next chapter in my ‘Back to Basics’ series is around consent and arranging play. The assumption of your position is that perhaps you’ve got talking with someone who would also like to play with you sometime. Examples could… Continue Reading →
As you may have seen, this week off the cuff I decided to create a survey about consent and abuse of. A link to the survey is here. I wanted to use this blog in order to. – Clarify what… Continue Reading →
Having scrapped my planned blog for this week (honestly, it needed nuking – my good points in there will be mopped up on a future blog.) I had an inspiration for some writing earlier – and this is probably going… Continue Reading →
The other day, I had a bit of a realisation. A lot of the beginners/newbies information was pretty much in abundance when I joined the kink scene, but is slowly getting lost amongst the noise. So. I’m starting a series… Continue Reading →
My first 2017 retrospective I wrote, I wasn’t very happy with. While it did focus on some highs – and lows – of this year : there’s things it didn’t quite capture. This HAS been a very good year for… Continue Reading →
I think there’s sometimes a polar in “sub” guys who get it wrong. Be it: 1) I’ll do anything, I have no limits or 2) I want to serve you by doing all my fetishes and fantasies. On the surface,… Continue Reading →
I recently started my ‘Mistress Profile’ style blogs and with it being fairly popular and well read I took it as an indication to do a few more. It is slightly limited to those I’ve actually met, but, I have… Continue Reading →
I’ve pondered on and off for a while about doing a ‘Mistress Profile’ style blog, about the Women that inspire me, rather than just topics. Now is as good a time as ever. I’ve no idea how regular this will… Continue Reading →