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Back to Basics : Consent & Negotiating Play

A logical next chapter in my ‘Back to Basics’ series is around consent and arranging play. The assumption of your position is that perhaps you’ve got talking with someone who would also like to play with you sometime. Examples could… Continue Reading →

Consent : A Survey

As you may have seen, this week off the cuff I decided to create a survey about consent and abuse of. A link to the survey is here. I wanted to use this blog in order to. – Clarify what… Continue Reading →

A more personal take on getting out what you put in

Having scrapped my planned blog for this week (honestly, it needed nuking – my good points in there will be mopped up on a future blog.) I had an inspiration for some writing earlier – and this is probably going… Continue Reading →

Back to Basics : Munches

The other day, I had a bit of a realisation. A lot of the beginners/newbies information was pretty much in abundance when I joined the kink scene, but is slowly getting lost amongst the noise. So. I’m starting a series… Continue Reading →

2017 Retrospective : Lessons Learned.

My first 2017 retrospective I wrote, I wasn’t very happy with. While it did focus on some highs – and lows – of this year : there’s things it didn’t quite capture. This HAS been a very good year for… Continue Reading →

I’ll do anything (as long as it’s my fetish)

I think there’s sometimes a polar in “sub” guys who get it wrong. Be it: 1) I’ll do anything, I have no limits or 2) I want to serve you by doing all my fetishes and fantasies. On the surface,… Continue Reading →

Mistress Profiles : Miss Suzanna

I recently started my ‘Mistress Profile’ style blogs and with it being fairly popular and well read I took it as an indication to do a few more. It is slightly limited to those I’ve actually met, but, I have… Continue Reading →

Mistress Profiles : Miss Courtney

I’ve pondered on and off for a while about doing a ‘Mistress Profile’ style blog, about the Women that inspire me, rather than just topics. Now is as good a time as ever. I’ve no idea how regular this will… Continue Reading →

Different Types of Timewaster

Different Types of Timewaster And, how not to be one. We all know about deliberate and blatant timewasters – though, we often assume timewaster = someone who books a session and doesn’t show, or overmilks a conversation without a firm… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Mx Valleycat at Studio F2-8

There’s a few things I want to celebrate in this post. There are some things people who know me will likely know. I’ve been a filming slave for the past 18 months knocking up nearly 100 clips.

Diary : A Pissy Pickle (with Ms Evilyne)

  I’d been very excited about the prospect of spending time again with Ms Evilyne, O/our previous encounters had been excellent experiences and so I was excited (and, of course, nervous) to see what was in store for me this… Continue Reading →

Only Fans and Horses

There’s been a rise recently in Premiem Content playforms, by that I mean stuff like OnlyFans, Premium Snapchat and a few other bits popping up here and there. Inevitably, this has led to a rise in disapproval in them, be… Continue Reading →

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