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It’s now 10 years since I got into filming. Of course the date I used (July 9th 2016) wasn’t the first time I’d filmed. But save for a couple of ad hoc days, and some stuff I’d helped an ex-wife… Continue Reading →
Something I’d wanted to write for a while was a lot on how I/we plan and organise film days. By admission, it’s not a uniform formula, a lot can depend on the context on who is involved and how many… Continue Reading →
I’d seen a few comments around, what amounts to, pick up play. Including people looking for it, those who’d engaged in it and had issues – and – I felt, this could be a good topic for a Back to… Continue Reading →
One of the myths that always pops up is “the submissive is the one really in control” Granted. The submissive has more control than credit is sometimes given for but to say they have overall control is both inaccurate and,… Continue Reading →
Not to say I’ve been slow in updating my blog recently. But, I’ve been slow at updating my blog recently. In 2023 so far there have been 5 published blogs, this makes number 6, so around one a month. A… Continue Reading →
A somewhat hot topic recently has been around ‘filming tributes’ and how right or fair they are. Often the fee/payment to see a Pro-Domme or engage in some form of online (or other play) is known as the ‘tribute’. With… Continue Reading →
It’s been a lot longer than planned since I last did a diary post! So many adventures which haven’t fully gone documented, which feels a shame. So, here are two for the price of one. January 2023 I managed two… Continue Reading →
I’d been talking to a friend the other day. She has been dating and looking for a kinky partner.  Although she is a switch, though it is not important to her that a partner would satisfy this. She recently met… Continue Reading →
One of my favourite stories about consent, limits, and communication sums up some of my general feelings about the problem with ‘limits’ sometimes. The story goes. A shibari specialist was offering play and doing demos involving a queue of volunteers…. Continue Reading →
I was in a conference the other day and, for some bizarre reason, they closed by asking the presenters “does pineapple go on pizza?” My thought on this was what a bizarre way to end the day – and none… Continue Reading →
You know when you’re at a club or party and someone catches your eye? Â You think, “Wow, they look amazing”, but then for any one of a million reasons you end up leaving having not said anything? Well. That… Continue Reading →
I first met Lady Valeska at a filming and Femdom event in Evesham back in 2019. At the time my clip store was in it’s infancy, but she was really kind enough to let me use a one-on-one clip we’d… Continue Reading →