eyemblacksheep

Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

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A weekend in July : 3 film days and some clubbing

After a busy May, June needed to be a little quieter. But, things for July seemed to slot neatly. This blog covers the weekend of 4th-6th July – some further antics will be in future blogs. I’ve already written a… Continue Reading →

Sexual Health in BDSM – Look After Yourself

Often a lot of my blogs work for one audience ahead of another – but this is generally one for everyone who is likely to read. Sexual Health. I know many of you probably already get routinely checked and take… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming, Strap On Parties, more filming – a busy May!

I have been incredibly and wonderfully busy recently – the downside of this is that it’s been really difficult to individually blog all of the experiences. Though, I don’t like to blog *everything* for assorted reasons. First off. I’ve not… Continue Reading →

A visit to Club DVS

There’s a lot of clubs that I’ve been fortunate enough to have visited. I can’t think of any active events that I’d not recommend; but certainly some that I find easier to universally recommend. I like what Club DVS are… Continue Reading →

Mental Health in BDSM : Helping Yourself and Others

I recently had a thought about mental health – and a kind of, how well do we communicate our needs within fetish and BDSM. I realised that this was something myself I could do better, but I was interested about… Continue Reading →

So – I launched my own clip store

So, it’s here. My own Femdom clipstore. Who’d have thought it? When I first started filming 3 years ago it was a little bit “Wouldn’t this be fun to do sometime”.  Things have come a little way since then. Of… Continue Reading →

Your first email is part of the vetting process

I know there are many different “how to contact a Dominant” type blogs – although, still many people who clearly could learn more. I have, at times, seen people feel this doesn’t apply to them or is pretentious or whatever… Continue Reading →

Just get a slave to do it

“Why don’t you just get a slave to do it?” I think this is going to be my most simple, and to the point, posts. There seems to be a rise recently whereby a Mistress or Dominant will post about… Continue Reading →

Being Good Enough

One of the things you may know I’ve struggled with in the past of the feeling of “being good enough”. Because there’s always someone prettier, richer, can take more, more popular, has better contacts, has a specialist ability, so on…. Continue Reading →

Diary : Meeting Miss Jasmine

“What you going to write? That we drank tea and talked?” “Maybe I will…” It’s funny, really. And an important reminder of the importance of doing things without set expectations and to enjoy taking things as they come.

Bonding far from perfect? Yeah, but so is our own industry.

Although this blog post isn’t about the TV show ‘Bonding’ it is partially inspired by it. If you’re unfamiliar with the show – it’s a Netflix show regarding a young Dominatrix recruiting her high-school friend as an assistant. It’s 7… Continue Reading →

Feeling more like myself

I’m not going to lie, I’ve found things fairly tough for a while now. It’s felt a bit that just as one thing was going right or getting sorted another thing was going wrong and it’s felt like constant firefighting… Continue Reading →

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