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Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

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Is submission truly selfless?

Is submission truly selfless? Something that I had struggled with in the past was around whether or not my actions were “selfless”. Part of this stemmed from a moment a while ago when two Ladies were discussing guys in general… Continue Reading →

Diary – BTS Filming: with Penny Banks, Mxtress Valleycat and Miss Abigail

This is a slightly rare blog post in the sense that… I don’t actually appear very much. I spent most of the week behind a camera, often trying to keep a straight camera and straight face for a few days… Continue Reading →

Ownership within D/s

Someone asked me on Curious Cat “What does ownership mean to you?” I replied, of course, that this wasn’t something I could sum up in a couple of lines. I have been working on drafts regarding ownership for a while…. Continue Reading →

How to get 82.5% Commission from Clips4Sale

How to get 82.5% Commission from Clips4Sale. I’m going to make a drastic change from my usual writing and produce an actual guide… this one being to making more money. There’s a lot going on in the world of clips… Continue Reading →

Finding the right Dominant for you : some vetting tips.

So. You’re scrolling through Twitter or Fetlife or wherever and see photos or mention of someone that makes you go “ooh”. Perhaps this could be a picture or clip of someone you’ve found attractive or maybe something they’ve said that… Continue Reading →

Submission isn’t black and white – knowing what you’re looking for

Submission isn’t always black and white One of the first and most important rules in submission is that ‘the rules’ are defined by your relationship and dynamic. Sometimes the answer “is this normal?” is, “yes” and “does it matter anyway,… Continue Reading →

Fantasy v Reality : If it’s real to you, it’s real

My thoughts on Fantasy v Reality take a little bit of a twist today. See, I had intended on following up my, more lighthearted, post – with something more serious about some of my struggles. But, instead I decided on… Continue Reading →

Back to Basics : Profile Pitfalls

Profile Pitfalls I’m not sure if this is one for a ‘Back to Basics’ article – or – an opinion piece in it’s own right. Maybe a bit of both. Anyway, I was on a website the other day and… Continue Reading →

A Taste of Heaven

“I’ll pre-warn you, my feet are sweaty” Oh. Good. This didn’t bother me. She knew it didn’t bother me. It was said to excite me. But, in saying this before I removed Her boots… this did present a challenge.

Do I Deserve This?

Do I deserve this? I am going to cut straight to the chase, I struggle, at times, with ‘Impostor Syndrome’. In saying that – sometimes when I’m struggling I do acknowledge this is the problem, that it is a known… Continue Reading →

Story : Meet Amelia

“You actually asked for this?” “Yes, Mistress” “Meet Amelia… you may give her a kiss” So, I did – a little kiss planted down the length of the leather.

Diary: Return to the Berlin Farm

After a really good weekend at the Hidden Torturer Farm last year, it was certainly a no-brainer to repeat the opportunity. (Read here for last years adventures). Like previously, I was going with a view to be of assistance to… Continue Reading →

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