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Diary : Filming with Miss Wildfire

Filming, and other opportunities, through the pandemic had been sparse. A lot felt weird to diary about, so I didn’t, but many were low risk and low key.  Literally myself, the lady and a tripod. Today we have a camera… Continue Reading →

My Partner Said No to My Fetish – How Do I Change Her Mind?

A couple of messages (some of specific scenarios, some generally being a form of FAQ) has led me to start a new Agony Aunt category. Consider that my advice is based solely on my experience. I want to start with… Continue Reading →

Diary : A Return to filming / with Goddexx Althea

I don’t diary every filming day or private session (not that I’ve had a private session in a while… another story for another day) but I almost started to regret that with the pandemic and shut down. So, the filming… Continue Reading →

Ownership :  In a BDSM “Lifestyle” Relationship?

Ownership :  In a BDSM “Lifestyle” Relationship? Whilst working out the next logical place to go with this mini series; a comment on the context of the relationship raised a very important point. “It’s would be helpful to have context… Continue Reading →

Filming isn’t a shortcut to kink

I want you to imagine these scenarios In these conversations Person A is someone making enquiries, and Person B is a Producer of a non-specific TV serial.

Diary – filming with Amy Wynters

I’ve found over the last 12 months or so a growing number of people who’ve expressed interest in filming – but trying to sort it out is somewhat trickier than it should seem. I’ve been plotting a few regular trips… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Fetish SINema

I feel I’ve been a bit lax in doing the diary posts for some of the filming days and so wanted to get back on it. I think part the problem was I was doing a lot of filming very… Continue Reading →

UK Fetish Awards / I’m up for two awards

NOTE : this is an old blog – the voting links are no longer relevant and have been removed.   So.  April sees the first UK Fetish Awards and I’m pleased to say I’m nominated for 2 different awards. –… Continue Reading →

Does my Domme really like me, or is it purely financial?

This is a blog I think a number of conversations and more has led me to write; but it’s arguably controversial. “Does she really like me, or is it purely financial?” Oh. OK. I suppose a counter argument could be… Continue Reading →

Mistress Profiles : Nina Hiss

It’s been a while since I last did the ‘Mistress Profile’ series – and so, about time it came back.  There are three I’ve already got ready and hopefully more to follow. First off, I’m going to start with someone… Continue Reading →

“Why is it hard to find a Domme?” – and other things not to say.

There’s an alarming regularity that someone will write on a forum something like “Why is it hard to find a Domme?”, “Where are all the Dommes?”, “My fetish is a bit niche so it’s hard to find someone…” To a… Continue Reading →

Knowing/Setting Your Financial Boundaries

Knowing/Setting Your Financial Boundaries. This is not (just) about Findom. There’s a lot within fetish and BDSM, particularly when you’re new, or meet somebody new, there can be a temptation to “spend now, worry about it later” This could be… Continue Reading →

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