Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

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The ratio between subs and Dommes is closer than you think

Can We Please Stop the “Subs outnumber Dommes” myth? The ratio between subs and Dommes is a lot closer than many claim. It’s all too frequent that there is someone who will harp on about “the ratio” – how there… Continue Reading →

Myths about Male Submissives

If you google “myths about submission” the vast majority of results that come back are bias towards submissive women. And this is valid, and a lot of points are completely transferable, but – all too often I see myths that… Continue Reading →

Bet Your Orgasm (Fiction)

Mistress’s words were the only thing her sub heard, as he was under hypnosis. Her voice was soft and clear, like a whisper echoing in the dungeon. The only other sound came from the atmospheric electronic music that played in… Continue Reading →

The Myth of ‘The Submissive is Really in Control’

One of the myths that always pops up is “the submissive is the one really in control” Granted. The submissive has more control than credit is sometimes given for but to say they have overall control is both inaccurate and,… Continue Reading →

Diary : January Filming – feat Goddess Cleo, Miss Jessica Hyde, Foxtress and Mx Valleycat

It’s been a lot longer than planned since I last did a diary post!  So many adventures which haven’t fully gone documented, which feels a shame. So, here are two for the price of one. January 2023 I managed two… Continue Reading →

2022 – in Video and Film

At it’s simplest in numbers. In 2022 I did 16 film days, doing a total of 90 clips with 20 different people. Landmarks among the way included filming the 400th clip I’d been in. It’s been a ride, and so… Continue Reading →

Diary : Messtival and Filming with Roxy-Fox and Araneae

It’s been a while since I did a diary post (or blog in general, sorry!) but this is one with so much adventure it feels like it shouldn’t be left out. There is a lot of back story, so this… Continue Reading →

Diary : Meeting Miss Cate McQueen

You know when you’re at a club or party and someone catches your eye?   You think, “Wow, they look amazing”, but then for any one of a million reasons you end up leaving having not said anything? Well. That… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Lady Valeska

I first met Lady Valeska at a filming and Femdom event in Evesham back in 2019. At the time my clip store was in it’s infancy, but she was really kind enough to let me use a one-on-one clip we’d… Continue Reading →

Diary : Finding Miss Hyde

I know there’s a running joke about the “Hey, we should do something someday” and the amount of time it takes to, well, do something.   But, I think meeting Miss Jessica Hyde was certainly on the excessive front time… Continue Reading →

Diary : A Trinity of Filming – Foxtress, Goddess Cleo and Miss Annaliese

A bit of a trinity today. Filming with Foxtress (our third film day together), Goddess Cleo (who we’ve talked about filming a few times in the past it’s just never happened) and Mistress Annaliese (on her first ever film day)…. Continue Reading →

Booking a Session with a Pro Domme

There is rarely a bad time to make steps in booking a first session with any form of provider (while this may follow a bias of ‘Professional Dominant’ – the logic applies to anything from Pro Subs to Full Service… Continue Reading →

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