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Bonding far from perfect? Yeah, but so is our own industry.

Although this blog post isn’t about the TV show ‘Bonding’ it is partially inspired by it. If you’re unfamiliar with the show – it’s a Netflix show regarding a young Dominatrix recruiting her high-school friend as an assistant. It’s 7… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Nina Hiss – and a clip landmark

It wasn’t an intention to go for a landmark number of clips; but, perhaps that in itself was why doing my 200th clip was so valuable. I’d talked on and off about doing some filming with Nina Hiss – and… Continue Reading →

“Lucky Slave?” – actually, yes, we’re all lucky.

Maybe there’s some stock in “lucky slave” As some of you probably know, I despise the term “lucky slave” – usually written in a comment to a picture or clip (specifically, the 7 second trailer!) An often common response is… Continue Reading →

Ownership within D/s

Someone asked me on Curious Cat “What does ownership mean to you?” I replied, of course, that this wasn’t something I could sum up in a couple of lines. I have been working on drafts regarding ownership for a while…. Continue Reading →

How to get 82.5% Commission from Clips4Sale

How to get 82.5% Commission from Clips4Sale. I’m going to make a drastic change from my usual writing and produce an actual guide… this one being to making more money. There’s a lot going on in the world of clips… Continue Reading →

Back to Basics : Profile Pitfalls

Profile Pitfalls I’m not sure if this is one for a ‘Back to Basics’ article – or – an opinion piece in it’s own right. Maybe a bit of both. Anyway, I was on a website the other day and… Continue Reading →

A Taste of Heaven

“I’ll pre-warn you, my feet are sweaty” Oh. Good. This didn’t bother me. She knew it didn’t bother me. It was said to excite me. But, in saying this before I removed Her boots… this did present a challenge.

Do I Deserve This?

Do I deserve this? I am going to cut straight to the chase, I struggle, at times, with ‘Impostor Syndrome’. In saying that – sometimes when I’m struggling I do acknowledge this is the problem, that it is a known… Continue Reading →

Diary: Return to the Berlin Farm

After a really good weekend at the Hidden Torturer Farm last year, it was certainly a no-brainer to repeat the opportunity. (Read here for last years adventures). Like previously, I was going with a view to be of assistance to… Continue Reading →

Fantasy v Reality : Mistakes Many Make

There’s been a lot on my mind lately regarding fantasy vs reality. While, perhaps, a deeper blog on my thought process could be one “for the future” – this blog here is more designed at some of the many pitfalls… Continue Reading →

Jealousy in Kink

Something that has been a struggle for me at times has been jealousy. I want to talk about some of my struggles and spirals. Some of this I drafted when feeling quite low, but a lot was written or reviewed… Continue Reading →

Am I even kinky?

Am I even kinky? I asked myself that today. Well. Today as of when I’m writing this blog, so in reality probably a different day. And, I know others have had similar thought processes. It is an extension, of course,… Continue Reading →

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