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There’s a lot said around gifting and tribute. Whether this is within the whole Findom “spoil me” kind of thing. Or gifts when meeting, or after meeting, or for a birthday or Christmas… or just because. A lot of this… Continue Reading →
A logical next chapter in my ‘Back to Basics’ series is around consent and arranging play. The assumption of your position is that perhaps you’ve got talking with someone who would also like to play with you sometime. Examples could… Continue Reading →
How to Find a Mistress I’ve seen a whole wave of newbies recently whom seem to have this question. “I’m interested in exploring my fetishes, where can I find a Mistress?” Or varients. There’s no one-stop solution, but here’s some… Continue Reading →
There are so many scenarios I can relate this to – and I’m sure most of you have either had someone attempt to take a short cut with you, or you’re possibly looking for the quickest way to get from… Continue Reading →
Having scrapped my planned blog for this week (honestly, it needed nuking – my good points in there will be mopped up on a future blog.) I had an inspiration for some writing earlier – and this is probably going… Continue Reading →
The other day, I had a bit of a realisation. A lot of the beginners/newbies information was pretty much in abundance when I joined the kink scene, but is slowly getting lost amongst the noise. So. I’m starting a series… Continue Reading →
Whilst ideas and inspirations for new blogs are brewing, including a couple of drafts already written, I wanted to reflect on why I do this blog in the first place. Whilst it’s certainly evolved from the early days, some of… Continue Reading →
We’re barely into January and there’s already the rumbling of those who maybe made their New Years Resolution “Explore my kink side”. I kinda get the “New Year” thing. That perhaps there’s something in your life you’ve been putting off… Continue Reading →
I think there’s sometimes a polar in “sub” guys who get it wrong. Be it: 1) I’ll do anything, I have no limits or 2) I want to serve you by doing all my fetishes and fantasies. On the surface,… Continue Reading →
Different Types of Timewaster And, how not to be one. We all know about deliberate and blatant timewasters – though, we often assume timewaster = someone who books a session and doesn’t show, or overmilks a conversation without a firm… Continue Reading →
I’ve heard this call a lot over the years. Recently a couple of threads on Twitter and Fetlife have prompted me to this mini burst. Without addressing any specific points. There’s no such thing as free I’m going to address… Continue Reading →
As some of you know, I’ve a bit of a background in the music industry (often described as “my other expensive hobby” – though, neither I see as hobbies, moreso lifestyles – but hey ho) I’ve often seen many parallels… Continue Reading →