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Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

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Making Clips : Don’t Fix it All in the Edit

One of the most important bits of advice I will give to anyone who is making clips is… the more you get right when shooting, the cheaper it is to edit. Editing software is amazing, and there are so many… Continue Reading →

The Problem With Limits – They’re Not Exhaustive

One of my favourite stories about consent, limits, and communication sums up some of my general feelings about the problem with ‘limits’ sometimes. The story goes. A shibari specialist was offering play and doing demos involving a queue of volunteers…. Continue Reading →

Diary : Messtival and Filming with Roxy-Fox and Araneae

It’s been a while since I did a diary post (or blog in general, sorry!) but this is one with so much adventure it feels like it shouldn’t be left out. There is a lot of back story, so this… Continue Reading →

New Adult Platforms – legitimate, misguided, or a scam?

This feels maybe like an article that should/could have been made 6 months ago, but some of the events of the past 6 months make this as valid as ever. Most weeks (probably most days even) it feels like there’s… Continue Reading →

Kinky People (to the tune of ‘Common People’)

He came online and had a raging boner he bothered women like a stupid loner That’s where She, Got his mail He said he he wanted to be her servant, She said, “In that case I’ll have a tribute He… Continue Reading →

Pineapple on Pizza : Not Wanting to do certain kinks doesn’t mean others shouldn’t

I was in a conference the other day and, for some bizarre reason, they closed by asking the presenters “does pineapple go on pizza?” My thought on this was what a bizarre way to end the day – and none… Continue Reading →

Diary : Meeting Miss Cate McQueen

You know when you’re at a club or party and someone catches your eye?   You think, “Wow, they look amazing”, but then for any one of a million reasons you end up leaving having not said anything? Well. That… Continue Reading →

“I’ve broken up with a long term vanilla partner – how do I get into kink?”

This is a question I answered recently on a forum, that I’ve seen variants of so much over the years… so I’m answering it here. “I have recently broken up with my partner of several years.   I have always… Continue Reading →

2021 in Review : A Glimpse of Normal Service

Coming into 2021 there were different waves of optimism.  I think we all kinda hoped covid would be “over” by now, but instead we’re in this weird hazy “learn to live with covid” phase which involves frequent testing, careful planning… Continue Reading →

10 Pieces of Advice for (new) Subs

I often see (particularly) new subs who appear dejected at how difficult it is for them to find a Dominant/Mistress. Particularly so if they feel they’re in a sea of scammers or people they’ve been talking to for a week… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Lady Valeska

I first met Lady Valeska at a filming and Femdom event in Evesham back in 2019. At the time my clip store was in it’s infancy, but she was really kind enough to let me use a one-on-one clip we’d… Continue Reading →

Diary : Finding Miss Hyde

I know there’s a running joke about the “Hey, we should do something someday” and the amount of time it takes to, well, do something.   But, I think meeting Miss Jessica Hyde was certainly on the excessive front time… Continue Reading →

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