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As someone who has often previously been an advocate on the whole “come to munches” thing, and of course run a munch (which you should totally come to) there’s a lot where my mind has changed a little bit over… Continue Reading →
I’d been talking to a friend the other day. She has been dating and looking for a kinky partner. Although she is a switch, though it is not important to her that a partner would satisfy this. She recently met… Continue Reading →
For the longest time I was ashamed of my foot fetish. I mean, it seems difficult. Something you can’t really control. But, for the longest time I struggled with it. Now, well, there’s pictures and videos of me with a… Continue Reading →
There is rarely a bad time to make steps in booking a first session with any form of provider (while this may follow a bias of ‘Professional Dominant’ – the logic applies to anything from Pro Subs to Full Service… Continue Reading →
Why you’re not getting the play or relationships you crave People often want different things from their patriation in the fetish community (be participation signing up for websites or going to munches/events). And while some people seem to have great… Continue Reading →
A couple of messages (some of specific scenarios, some generally being a form of FAQ) has led me to start a new Agony Aunt category. Consider that my advice is based solely on my experience. I want to start with… Continue Reading →
Ownership : In a BDSM “Lifestyle” Relationship? Whilst working out the next logical place to go with this mini series; a comment on the context of the relationship raised a very important point. “It’s would be helpful to have context… Continue Reading →
Covid19 and Kink There’s probably a whole raft of blogs I could write on covid19. Not that I’m a particular expert, I’m not saying that, but on how it’s going to affect us in kink. Some clubs and events went… Continue Reading →
Re-reading my 2018 review I couldn’t help but get a sense of de ja vous. Initially, I’d tried and failed to write a 2019 write-up I was happy with. That, as I’m sure most people will know, I find it… Continue Reading →
“I’ll do anything”, “Whatever Mistress/Sir wants” These sound like good tidbits. It’s like there’s been some thought put into the lack of thought. “If I let people know I’m up for anything that it widens my chances” It also, potentially,… Continue Reading →
I was reading yet-another bitching-about-Findom thread the other day. It’s kinda sobering the lack of self awareness some of these guys have. It has happened, but it’s very rare I get cold contacted by a Findom – and – I’ll… Continue Reading →
A logical next chapter in my ‘Back to Basics’ series is around consent and arranging play. The assumption of your position is that perhaps you’ve got talking with someone who would also like to play with you sometime. Examples could… Continue Reading →