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Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

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I’ll do anything

“I’ll do anything”, “Whatever Mistress/Sir wants” These sound like good tidbits. It’s like there’s been some thought put into the lack of thought. “If I let people know I’m up for anything that it widens my chances” It also, potentially,… Continue Reading →

Diary : Filming with Sir Claire Black

I kinda love it when things come together so nicely. I’d very much been interested in doing something with Sir Claire Black since, well, since She was recommended to me 10 months ago.

Knowing what you seek is halfway to finding it

Submission isn’t always black and white One of the first and most important rules in submission is that ‘the rules’ are defined by your relationship and dynamic. Sometimes the answer “is this normal?” is, “yes” and “does it matter anyway,… Continue Reading →

What have the professionals ever done for us

Initially, I was going to write this as a Monty Python style blog. What have the Professionals ever done for us? Well, apart from better sanitation and medicine and education and irrigation and public health and roads and a freshwater… Continue Reading →

Do guys who bitch about Findom lack self awareness?

I was reading yet-another bitching-about-Findom thread the other day. It’s kinda sobering the lack of self awareness some of these guys have. It has happened, but it’s very rare I get cold contacted by a Findom – and – I’ll… Continue Reading →

Finding the perfect(?) gift

There’s a lot said around gifting and tribute. Whether this is within the whole Findom “spoil me” kind of thing. Or gifts when meeting, or after meeting, or for a birthday or Christmas… or just because. A lot of this… Continue Reading →

Back to Basics : Consent & Negotiating Play

A logical next chapter in my ‘Back to Basics’ series is around consent and arranging play. The assumption of your position is that perhaps you’ve got talking with someone who would also like to play with you sometime. Examples could… Continue Reading →

Consent and Abuse Survey : The Results

Recently, I conducted a survey to do some research around consent and violations and the management of these within BDSM. The reasons were two-fold, firstly for my own understanding. That, I of course have my own opinions and understanding, but… Continue Reading →

Finding a Mistress – Do’s and Don’ts

How to Find a Mistress I’ve seen a whole wave of newbies recently whom seem to have this question. “I’m interested in exploring my fetishes, where can I find a Mistress?” Or varients. There’s no one-stop solution, but here’s some… Continue Reading →

Back to Basics : Fetish and BDSM Events

Continuing my ‘Back to Basics’ series, I’m now looking at events and parties. In the last installment it was munches and it may be that having been to some munches you want to step up to one of the events… Continue Reading →

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