Tag submission
The thing with kink, is it isn’t actually a ‘need’. You go through Maslow’s ‘hierarchy of needs’ and there’s no line for ballbusting. We ain’t gonna die or go unfulfilled if we’re not sucking toes. Water is as good (if… Continue Reading →
If you google “myths about submission” the vast majority of results that come back are bias towards submissive women. And this is valid, and a lot of points are completely transferable, but – all too often I see myths that… Continue Reading →
Mistress’s words were the only thing her sub heard, as he was under hypnosis. Her voice was soft and clear, like a whisper echoing in the dungeon. The only other sound came from the atmospheric electronic music that played in… Continue Reading →
One of the myths that always pops up is “the submissive is the one really in control” Granted. The submissive has more control than credit is sometimes given for but to say they have overall control is both inaccurate and,… Continue Reading →
I’d been talking to a friend the other day. She has been dating and looking for a kinky partner. Although she is a switch, though it is not important to her that a partner would satisfy this. She recently met… Continue Reading →
It’s been a while since I did a diary post (or blog in general, sorry!) but this is one with so much adventure it feels like it shouldn’t be left out. There is a lot of back story, so this… Continue Reading →
There is rarely a bad time to make steps in booking a first session with any form of provider (while this may follow a bias of ‘Professional Dominant’ – the logic applies to anything from Pro Subs to Full Service… Continue Reading →
Filming, and other opportunities, through the pandemic had been sparse. A lot felt weird to diary about, so I didn’t, but many were low risk and low key. Literally myself, the lady and a tripod. Today we have a camera… Continue Reading →
Before I get to the obvious – this was something raised to me as a question as a suggestion for a blog. The backstory goes as follows. “There was a Mistress who made some posts about being poly and celebrating… Continue Reading →
A common fantasy I see raised a lot is the idea of being a live-in slave. Except, the fantasy is not presented as being a fantasy, but a goal. Obviously there are people who have this type of relationship, under… Continue Reading →
Punishments in BDSM often get talked about, but it’s something that’s often a little misunderstood, especially from newcomers. Experienced subs or Dominants might talk about being punished, or punishing their subs. If you watch BDSM clips, or read descriptions, there… Continue Reading →
A couple of messages (some of specific scenarios, some generally being a form of FAQ) has led me to start a new Agony Aunt category. Consider that my advice is based solely on my experience. I want to start with… Continue Reading →