Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

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Little Things… and who is in control. My latest muse on submission.

I think this is now a third complete re-write on my latest mulling on submission.

There’s been a few different factors and other writings which have inspired me into this, including one I wrote 7 months ago.

I mean, my one 7 months ago – it was a ramble. It was me thinking aloud and excreting words to the screen trying to decide if and where I fit in… and concluded that actually it doesn’t matter if I’m submissive or not as long as everyone involved is happy.

I do stand by that conclusion and will probably always stand by that conclusion.

A Year of Filming

It’s been a year today since I first filmed a clip as a filming slave.

I have been sitting on a draft about filming, in general for many months – and now seems a good time to do a final version of it 🙂

My Experiences in Corporal Punishment

The other day I put up a tweet inviting topic requests for blogs.

Punishing Times suggested
“Your experiences with CP and tips for what works, what doesn’t?”

So.
This is my experience in CP.

Diary – Subversion : Secret 102 Meet

There’s so many clubs and events and things that I want to check out – and – sometimes the right sort of prompt can take you out.

I’ve written before about the Secret 102 radio show (blog here), which I enjoy and the concept of a meet up of some of the listeners and presenters seemed a perfect opportunity – taking place at Club Subversion.

The Magic Words

From the archives… based on something from January 2016. Originally published on Fetlife. I do have a footnote….
Here goes…

I lay sprawled across the spanking bench, exhausted.

Diary : Filming with Miss Suzanna Maxwell

One thing I enjoy about a lot of the things I get involved in is that absolutely anything can come from anywhere

There’s stories I haven’t told – maybe one day I will, in the wrong order. But, the idea of some of these blog posts came after I’d been in a position to be like “Hey, do you mind if I write about how awesome You are?”

I’m Not Done With You Yet – 2016 Retrospective

Back in January, I wrote a blog post which was a story based on something which happened, which focused on a moment and a mood.

In my post it’s a long post which reflects over something which probably only took a few seconds in reality.
You can read my story here… clicky

I’m not really one for planting trigger words, but the right words at the right time sums up a moment and creates such dynamics. At the time I thought time was up or that I was finished… but no, “I’m not done with you yet” she told me…

That’s how I began this year.

Lifestyle or Professional (err… both)

I read an interesting blog the other day by Nikki Whiplash entitled ‘Are you Lifestyle’ (link) and it pretty much was a humorous rant about the question that gets asked of Pro Domme’s far too often.
Being “lifestyle” and being “Professional” are not mutually exclusive.
Of some of the questions I’d sometimes nervously like to ask Professional Dominatrix’s… “Are you Lifestyle?” isn’t close.

Kinky Radio Station : Secret 102

Over the past few weeks I’ve been really enjoying a radio show on the station Secret102.com

Adam Green’s Asylum is Mon-Thu between 9pm-11pm. This is, effectively, a kink-friendly radio station. Presented by Adam and ‘The Other Bloke’ (Bossman, or, Bitchman, depending on who is insulting him).

At first, I was a bit unsure about this idea. But given I tune in most nights, or download the podcast when I miss it, it’s safe to say I’m hooked.

First blog post

Kinkster, North-East England… returned to the scene in 2013 and been very active since then.

I wanted to keep this blog as a supplement to my Fetlife blog, some posts will be duplicated on both – some exclusive to one or the other, but discussing my journey and experiences (and a fair few opinion pieces)

I’m a switch, I have been exploring both sides of the slash this year.  It’s been a ride.

Your journey and others opinions

I tried to write this a few times over the past few weeks.

I end up tying myself in a mess and bulldozed it and started again, but, I think one of the most singular important lessons about kink/BDSM.

Your journey is yours alone.

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