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There’s a lot said around gifting and tribute. Whether this is within the whole Findom “spoil me” kind of thing. Or gifts when meeting, or after meeting, or for a birthday or Christmas… or just because. A lot of this… Continue Reading →
A logical next chapter in my ‘Back to Basics’ series is around consent and arranging play. The assumption of your position is that perhaps you’ve got talking with someone who would also like to play with you sometime. Examples could… Continue Reading →
Recently, I conducted a survey to do some research around consent and violations and the management of these within BDSM. The reasons were two-fold, firstly for my own understanding. That, I of course have my own opinions and understanding, but… Continue Reading →
How to Find a Mistress I’ve seen a whole wave of newbies recently whom seem to have this question. “I’m interested in exploring my fetishes, where can I find a Mistress?” Or varients. There’s no one-stop solution, but here’s some… Continue Reading →
Continuing my ‘Back to Basics’ series, I’m now looking at events and parties. In the last installment it was munches and it may be that having been to some munches you want to step up to one of the events… Continue Reading →
As you may have seen, this week off the cuff I decided to create a survey about consent and abuse of. A link to the survey is here. I wanted to use this blog in order to. – Clarify what… Continue Reading →
There are so many scenarios I can relate this to – and I’m sure most of you have either had someone attempt to take a short cut with you, or you’re possibly looking for the quickest way to get from… Continue Reading →
“OK, then,” She replied, “I will give you a trial” He could hardly believe his luck as he began to read the email response. “Many of My terms are non-negotionable, You will report to My dungeon at 7pm tomorrow to… Continue Reading →
Having scrapped my planned blog for this week (honestly, it needed nuking – my good points in there will be mopped up on a future blog.) I had an inspiration for some writing earlier – and this is probably going… Continue Reading →
The other day, I had a bit of a realisation. A lot of the beginners/newbies information was pretty much in abundance when I joined the kink scene, but is slowly getting lost amongst the noise. So. I’m starting a series… Continue Reading →
Whilst ideas and inspirations for new blogs are brewing, including a couple of drafts already written, I wanted to reflect on why I do this blog in the first place. Whilst it’s certainly evolved from the early days, some of… Continue Reading →
We’re barely into January and there’s already the rumbling of those who maybe made their New Years Resolution “Explore my kink side”. I kinda get the “New Year” thing. That perhaps there’s something in your life you’ve been putting off… Continue Reading →