eyemblacksheep

Journey and Opinions of a BDSM Kinkster

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December 2018

2018 in Review

A review of the year is fairly… it’s tricky.

See, I’ve attempted a few drafts – because I feel there’s this balance difficult to weigh up.

I could just showcase my highlights, but that doesn’t really look too much at the times I’ve struggled.
But some of the drafts where I discuss my struggles ends up overshadowing the good bits and sometimes make me seem entitled or ungrateful.

Risk : Being Aware of It.

I’m going to be really technical today and discuss risk.

Risk is something important in many parts of life. Every day we take risks, but, there’s a lot of things we’re programmed to mitigate this.

For example – every time we cross the road there is a risk, but our entire lives we’ve had the green cross code drilled into our heads.

So, when a road is busy we look for a crossing.
If one isn’t available perhaps we cross in groups.
Lest of all we stop look and listen.

why the “free foot massages” trope doesn’t work

I’d started another blog and got sidetracked on this issue – but, felt it was a big enough one to have it’s own blog, which can reference this one.

Amongst the most comical of classifieds is whenever you get a guy trying to be clever by offering “free foot massages”.

Other variations are available.

“I want to be like you” – the strangers trying to coattail

Every now and then I get a message from another guy.

The general vibe is usually

“You get to do cool things and meet nice Women, I would also like that”

Sometimes I even get “maybe you could take me with you.”

No stranger. I don’t know you from shit, taking you with me would be a form of vouching and I can’t vouch for you because I don’t know you and any bad behaviour will reflect on me.

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