I’d been curious about attending a Femdom event for quite a while.
There’s often been reasons I’ve not – whether it’s been uncertainty of if it’s for me, or general nerves. Too much expectancy and then disappointment or even just a vision that there was a risk of too many single subs all desperate for play and in that kind of set up I get a bit intimidated and step back which has me have no chance.
But some of this is all pre-conceptions and worry and the likes- but the whole concept of Bitches Unleashed was too good to miss.
The Poster for the Event
The fact a few Women I had previously had the pleasure of meeting would be there was a massive boost – as was the fact that some good friends of mine were also interested in the event.
So meeting some favourite people with some favourite people.
My expectations were simple. Not knowing what to expect. Lots of ideas were nice in my head, but getting in the mindset of the night and what it was about helping.
Celebrating Female Supremacy.
Helping contribute to people I like – and other amazing Women – to have a good time and making myself up for play, mostly in line with my interests, but I can be flexible in the right occasion.
The 4 of us, Ms Xena, Ms Noble Hart, eldrytch and myself met up at a sensible location and travelled through.
A little bit muddle on what was the best set up for accommodation ended up in a back to front situation where the two subs got the nicer hotel (but, we did also have the £44 taxi bill!) it sounds back to front but did make logistical sense, honest!
I had been struggling a little bit with anxiety. A little on and off around the event but it was at the point where that shouldn’t be an issue, I then suspected I may have mental bad association with Manchester after a string of bad experiences in the city – and realising this helped in some ways and made it worse in others.
With everyone not, quite, ready, myself and Ms Xena headed to the venue first and I think being there actually helped to settle me quickly. Especially once I got into the spirit of things.
In an early draft of this, I’d almost written out what I had done and when and while it was nice to relive it, I also feel some should be left to the imagination.
For assorted reasons, I’m not going to list every single person I spoke to – but it was lovely to meet Women I knew such as Princess Aurora, Mistress Celeste, Miss Suzanna Maxwell, Mistress Courtney and Ms Evilyne (listed in order W/we said Hello) and to finally meet Madam Cruella and Miss Ruby Marks and also to meet completely new people such as Mistress Sarah-Jessica, Angelica Andrews and Mistress Shaitaana whom I helped for a lot of the night with glasses for the bars.
The wristband for the evening…. red sounds a bit scary 😉
At the beginning of the night, I selected wristbands, blue for foot worship/play, yellow for watersports/spitting/etc and orange for playing to reddening, not to be marked.
The reason as such was a little bit sensible – you could add or remove bands at any time and I did not want to be in a situation where, for example : it’s a long night, I didn’t want to be battered by 9.30pm and unable to do anything else and, also, whilst perfectly happy to help any Lady, I didn’t want to be in a position where a Mistress I already knew who wanted to batter me couldn’t because I’d already been beaten. Not, of course, that I expected this – but – keeping options open. If you do too little, you can do more later – if you do too much, you can’t undo it.
There’s lots I’m fairly impressed with – the venue is stylish and well smart (though the stairs keep feeling like they’re steeper each time), bar is fairly reasonable, organisers are friendly and approachable, there are lots of games for those who wish to be involved, a spacious dungeon, nice chill out area.
I think the balance of Mistresses to submissives and the mix of free and owned submissives was pretty good. Nobody seemed to be without play.
A selection of some of the amazing Women present
For myself, I think I didn’t overdo it. I couldn’t pin point an overall favourite personal highlight, but catch up chats and socialising were energising, being knelt in front of Women I admire and chatting felt so good.
I got a little foot worship in, the opportunity to show I’d remembered how to greet Miss Suzanna Maxwell and finished the night with a bit caning.
A little more play may have been nice, but I’m better to leave myself wanting to do this again, than pushing myself too much.
I did get a bit excitable at times and did get a little over-awed, buuut… I feel so privileged to know so many lovely people. I had a little cry the other night when thinking about how lucky I am – and I hope everyone enjoyed my company as I enjoyed theirs.
I end the night practically being dragged out to get in the taxi, but not before a final little bit chat and goodnight ‘kiss’ with Princess Aurora – meaning I ended the night talking to the person I started the night talking with (who was actually Someone key in prodding me to come along also!) and leave after a good night.
The taxi ride back to the hotel has lots of sillyness as I randomly remember something and giggle about it. Such a good evening – and I hope every single Woman loved it.
What also made me happy was everyone in my group had a good night, so I don’t feel I dragged them across the country and been the only one to get much out of it 🙂
I have to say a massive congratulations to Mistress Brown and Miss Kitty who organised this – I hope the feedback is as glowing, if not moreso, from E/everyone else because it was something the (almost) North really needed. Thank You ladies.
So, when’s the next one?
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