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My Wife and Our Relationship

One idea I toyed with was doing blogs about my favourite Mistresses and why they are so wonderful.
I might do that, one day.   But regardless, I think it’d be more apt to do one about the most special Lady in my life, my wife.
I am going to talk a little about our relationship, our dynamic and I don’t know. It might help others understand, or, it might help others talk with their partners, or if nothing else I get to talk about a passion of mine and our relationship.

Diary : Berlin Filming for Merciless Dominas and Miss Courtney

It’s now been over a year since I started filming (blog on that here) and, one of the things I found was how much some doors and opportunities opened up for me as I proved to be reliable.

So, after filming with Merciless Dominas last July, I was invited to the Berlin shoot at the Torture Farm in October 2016. Unfortunately, prior commitments stopped me taking that – however, in the hope an opportunity would come back up, I took the chance in June 2017 – and things probably turned out a lot better this way.

Why is it always about money?

Why is it always about money?

aka – Pro-Shaming

“Where are all the women?” has been a lowly battle cry since the dawn of the internet.

It’s like the desperate mating call from the male who never leaves his house and is too tight to sign up for a dating site.

Add in some cliche about an unfair ratio or about how “nice guys finish last” and it’s complete.

The Difficult Second Session

I’ve been feeling a little reflectively lately.

I do now and then.

Today marks one year since the second occasion I booked a Private Session with a Professional Mistress. I think it’s interesting to remember some of my feelings going into that.

In music, there’s a term called ‘The Difficult Second Album Syndrome’.

My Experiences in Corporal Punishment

The other day I put up a tweet inviting topic requests for blogs.

Punishing Times suggested
“Your experiences with CP and tips for what works, what doesn’t?”

So.
This is my experience in CP.

The Magic Words

From the archives… based on something from January 2016. Originally published on Fetlife. I do have a footnote….
Here goes…

I lay sprawled across the spanking bench, exhausted.

Diary : Filming with Miss Suzanna Maxwell

Update : This blog has now been updated with links to clips – please scroll to bottom.

One thing I enjoy about a lot of the things I get involved in is that absolutely anything can come from anywhere

There’s stories I haven’t told – maybe one day I will, in the wrong order. But, the idea of some of these blog posts came after I’d been in a position to be like “Hey, do you mind if I write about how awesome You are?”

I’m Not Done With You Yet – 2016 Retrospective

Back in January, I wrote a blog post which was a story based on something which happened, which focused on a moment and a mood.

In my post it’s a long post which reflects over something which probably only took a few seconds in reality.
You can read my story here… clicky

I’m not really one for planting trigger words, but the right words at the right time sums up a moment and creates such dynamics. At the time I thought time was up or that I was finished… but no, “I’m not done with you yet” she told me…

That’s how I began this year.

Kinky Radio Station : Secret 102

Over the past few weeks I’ve been really enjoying a radio show on the station Secret102.com

Adam Green’s Asylum is Mon-Thu between 9pm-11pm. This is, effectively, a kink-friendly radio station. Presented by Adam and ‘The Other Bloke’ (Bossman, or, Bitchman, depending on who is insulting him).

At first, I was a bit unsure about this idea. But given I tune in most nights, or download the podcast when I miss it, it’s safe to say I’m hooked.

First blog post

Kinkster, North-East England… returned to the scene in 2013 and been very active since then.

I wanted to keep this blog as a supplement to my Fetlife blog, some posts will be duplicated on both – some exclusive to one or the other, but discussing my journey and experiences (and a fair few opinion pieces)

I’m a switch, I have been exploring both sides of the slash this year.  It’s been a ride.

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