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I’ll do anything

“I’ll do anything”, “Whatever Mistress/Sir wants” These sound like good tidbits. It’s like there’s been some thought put into the lack of thought. “If I let people know I’m up for anything that it widens my chances” It also, potentially,… Continue Reading →

Knowing what you seek is halfway to finding it

Submission isn’t always black and white One of the first and most important rules in submission is that ‘the rules’ are defined by your relationship and dynamic. Sometimes the answer “is this normal?” is, “yes” and “does it matter anyway,… Continue Reading →

What have the professionals ever done for us

Initially, I was going to write this as a Monty Python style blog. What have the Professionals ever done for us? Well, apart from better sanitation and medicine and education and irrigation and public health and roads and a freshwater… Continue Reading →

Do guys who bitch about Findom lack self awareness?

I was reading yet-another bitching-about-Findom thread the other day. It’s kinda sobering the lack of self awareness some of these guys have. It has happened, but it’s very rare I get cold contacted by a Findom – and – I’ll… Continue Reading →

Finding the perfect(?) gift

There’s a lot said around gifting and tribute. Whether this is within the whole Findom “spoil me” kind of thing. Or gifts when meeting, or after meeting, or for a birthday or Christmas… or just because. A lot of this… Continue Reading →

Back to Basics : Consent & Negotiating Play

A logical next chapter in my ‘Back to Basics’ series is around consent and arranging play. The assumption of your position is that perhaps you’ve got talking with someone who would also like to play with you sometime. Examples could… Continue Reading →

Finding a Mistress – Do’s and Don’ts

How to Find a Mistress I’ve seen a whole wave of newbies recently whom seem to have this question. “I’m interested in exploring my fetishes, where can I find a Mistress?” Or varients. There’s no one-stop solution, but here’s some… Continue Reading →

Back to Basics : Fetish and BDSM Events

Continuing my ‘Back to Basics’ series, I’m now looking at events and parties. In the last installment it was munches and it may be that having been to some munches you want to step up to one of the events… Continue Reading →

Consent : A Survey

As you may have seen, this week off the cuff I decided to create a survey about consent and abuse of. A link to the survey is here. I wanted to use this blog in order to. – Clarify what… Continue Reading →

Taking Shortcuts – The quick way to (not) get what you want

There are so many scenarios I can relate this to – and I’m sure most of you have either had someone attempt to take a short cut with you, or you’re possibly looking for the quickest way to get from… Continue Reading →

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