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I’ll do anything

“I’ll do anything”, “Whatever Mistress/Sir wants” These sound like good tidbits. It’s like there’s been some thought put into the lack of thought. “If I let people know I’m up for anything that it widens my chances” It also, potentially,… Continue Reading →

Knowing what you seek is halfway to finding it

Submission isn’t always black and white One of the first and most important rules in submission is that ‘the rules’ are defined by your relationship and dynamic. Sometimes the answer “is this normal?” is, “yes” and “does it matter anyway,… Continue Reading →

What have the professionals ever done for us

Initially, I was going to write this as a Monty Python style blog. What have the Professionals ever done for us? Well, apart from better sanitation and medicine and education and irrigation and public health and roads and a freshwater… Continue Reading →

Do guys who bitch about Findom lack self awareness?

I was reading yet-another bitching-about-Findom thread the other day. It’s kinda sobering the lack of self awareness some of these guys have. It has happened, but it’s very rare I get cold contacted by a Findom – and – I’ll… Continue Reading →

Finding the perfect(?) gift

There’s a lot said around gifting and tribute. Whether this is within the whole Findom “spoil me” kind of thing. Or gifts when meeting, or after meeting, or for a birthday or Christmas… or just because. A lot of this… Continue Reading →

Consent and Abuse Survey : The Results

Recently, I conducted a survey to do some research around consent and violations and the management of these within BDSM. The reasons were two-fold, firstly for my own understanding. That, I of course have my own opinions and understanding, but… Continue Reading →

Finding a Mistress – Do’s and Don’ts

How to Find a Mistress I’ve seen a whole wave of newbies recently whom seem to have this question. “I’m interested in exploring my fetishes, where can I find a Mistress?” Or varients. There’s no one-stop solution, but here’s some… Continue Reading →

Consent : A Survey

As you may have seen, this week off the cuff I decided to create a survey about consent and abuse of. A link to the survey is here. I wanted to use this blog in order to. – Clarify what… Continue Reading →

Taking Shortcuts – The quick way to (not) get what you want

There are so many scenarios I can relate this to – and I’m sure most of you have either had someone attempt to take a short cut with you, or you’re possibly looking for the quickest way to get from… Continue Reading →

A blog about my blog

Whilst ideas and inspirations for new blogs are brewing, including a couple of drafts already written, I wanted to reflect on why I do this blog in the first place. Whilst it’s certainly evolved from the early days, some of… Continue Reading →

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